Kadinlar ne ister?
Eminim bircok erkek bu soruyu kendilerine soruyordur.Bir kadin olarak sunu net olarak soyleyebilirimki, istedikleri verilsede, kadin,biraz daha fazla ister ya da baska birsey. :)) Umut kirici olmak istemezdim ama dost aci soyler :P
Ilgi alaka,hediyeler,tatli sozler,karismayan bir kayinvalide vs vs. bu istekler cesitlendirebilir.Istenilen seyin sabit olmasi ya da degismesine istinaden oran istikrarli bir sekilde artar.
Genel olarak niteleyebilirim bu istekleri..:
- Hakli olmasada -Haklisin denilmesini ister.Bunu deneyin, bakin gorun tartisma nasil bitiyor.
- Karismayan bir kayinvalide ya da annesini karistirmayan bir koca.
- Cicekler : "istemem" diyen kadin artistlik yapiyordur,sozum ona diger kadinlardan farkli ya.
- Arada, ufak hediyeler:Iste bu noktada kadinina gore degisir.Kimisi onun icin yaptiginiz origami bir kus ile mest olurken. kimisi "Elmaslar kizlarin en iyi dostudur" der.Hangi kategoride olduguna siz karar verin.
- Regl oncesi ve regl doneminde rahat birakilmak ister.Sıkıysa birakmayin.
- "Bugun ne kadar hos gozuktugunu" duymak ister.Yalniz, yalakalik ile samimi bir iltifati,akilli olan her kadin anlar boku bokuna dalkavukluk yapmayin.
- Bazen sadece dinlenilmek ister.Ustunuze alinmaniza ya da yorum yapmaniza gerek yok.Dinleyin yeter.
- Hem ustune dusen, hemde onu sıkmayan erkek tavri ister.
Listenin sonu gelmez ama benim uykum geldi.Uzun lafin kisasi kadinlarin istedigi seylerin sonu yok,orani yok, tam bir adi yok ama her normal insan gibi.her kadin sadece durustce sevilmek,sevildigini hissetmek ve guvenmek ister..
What Women want?
I am sure many men are asking the same question to themselves.As a woman. i can clearly say that no matter what you give, women always want either more or something else. :) I wouldn't want to disappoint you but be cruel to be kind :P
Attention,gifts,sweet talks, etc. These desires can be vary.While desired "thing" could be stable or changable, ratio of the desire will be increase consistently.
I can qualify these desires in general :
- -UR right ! Even if she isn't right,would like to hear it.Try, then you will see how an argument is over.
- mother-in-law isnt involving or a husband who doesn't let his mother to get involve !
- A woman saying that doesnt want flowers just trying to be different than others supposely .
- Little gifts sometimes: At this point, it is depends on the woman; an origami made bird melts some's hearts and some says " Diamonds are girls best friend ". You decide which kategory she is in.
- To be leaved alone (or in peace) during PMS. Dare not to..!
- Would like to hear -how she looks nice today but any smart woman would understand the difference btwn a sincere compliment and "butter up". so don't suck up.
- Sometimes she only would want to be listened.You don't have to comment nor take it personal,just try to listen.
- A man with coddle withoung boring attitude.
There is no end of this list but i feel sleepy.Long story short, there is no end of Women's desires,no ratio, no any specific name but like many normal people, all women would want be loved honestly,feel to be loved and would want to trust.
